Exciting News: We’re Going Virtual Very Soon!
At Cam’s Connected Community – Memory Café, our mission has always been simple: to create a safe, engaging, and compassionate environment where caregivers and individuals living with dementia can find connection, support, encouragement, and community.
And now, we’re excited to share that Cam’s Connected Community is going virtual very soon!
Bringing Our Community Closer to You
We understand that attending an in-person Memory Café isn’t always possible. Caregiving responsibilities, transportation, schedules, distance, and simply having a difficult day can make leaving home challenging.
That’s why we’re preparing to offer a virtual way to connect.
Our virtual gatherings will give caregivers and those living with dementia another opportunity to participate, learn, share experiences, enjoy activities, and connect with others—all from the comfort of home.
More information is coming soon, including dates and instructions for joining us online.
A Word to Our Caregivers
Caregiving can be rewarding, but it can also be physically and emotionally demanding.
Sometimes the caregiver becomes so focused on the needs of their loved one that their own needs move to the bottom of the list.
Remember: caring for yourself is also part of caregiving.
Try to give yourself permission to rest, ask for help, talk with someone you trust, and take small breaks whenever possible. You don't have to accomplish everything in one day.
Even a few quiet minutes with a cup of coffee, a short walk, prayer, music, or a conversation with a friend can provide a much-needed reset.
Practical Tips for In-Home Dementia Caregiving
1. Create a Consistent Routine
Familiar routines can provide reassurance. Try to keep meals, medications, bathing, activities, and bedtime on a predictable schedule whenever possible.
When changes are necessary, introduce them calmly and gradually.
2. Keep Communication Simple
Use short, clear sentences and give your loved one time to respond.
Instead of asking several questions at once, offer simple choices such as:
“Would you like the blue shirt or the green shirt?”
Most importantly, speak with the person—not around them.
3. Focus on Feelings, Not Just Facts
A person living with dementia may remember an event differently or become confused about time, places, or people.
Correcting every detail can sometimes create unnecessary frustration.
Instead, listen for the feeling behind what they're saying. They may be expressing fear, loneliness, confusion, or a need for reassurance.
Sometimes kindness and reassurance are more helpful than proving what is correct.
4. Make the Home Safer
Look around the home regularly for possible hazards.
Keep walking areas clear, improve lighting, secure medications and household chemicals, reduce clutter, and watch for rugs or cords that could cause falls.
As dementia progresses, safety needs can change, so continue evaluating the home environment.
5. Keep Them Engaged
Meaningful activity remains important.
Try activities based on the person's abilities and interests:
Listening to favorite music
Looking through family photographs
Folding towels
Gardening or caring for plants
Simple arts and crafts
Taking a short walk
Singing familiar songs
Doing simple puzzles
Cooking or helping prepare a familiar recipe
Talking about positive memories
The goal isn't perfection or completing the activity. The goal is engagement, connection, and enjoyment.
When the Day Becomes Difficult
There will be challenging days.
If your loved one becomes agitated or frustrated, consider what might be happening underneath the behavior.
Are they tired? Hungry? In pain? Overstimulated? Confused? Afraid? Do they need the bathroom? Has something in their environment changed?
Sometimes changing the environment, lowering noise, turning on familiar music, offering reassurance, or simply sitting quietly together can help.
And remember that behavior can be a form of communication when someone can no longer easily explain what they need.
Caregivers Need Community Too
One of the most important lessons we've learned through Cam’s Connected Community is that caregivers need connection just as much as the people they care for.
You deserve a place where people understand the journey.
That's why our Memory Café isn't only about activities. It's about relationships. It's about caregivers meeting other caregivers, sharing experiences, learning from one another, laughing together, and knowing that someone understands.
We are incredibly excited about the next chapter.
Stay connected with us as we announce the details.
Whether you're sitting with us at the Memory Café or joining us from your living room, our message remains the same:
You are welcome here.
You are valued here.
There is a community here for you.
With faith, compassion, and community, we will continue walking this caregiving journey together.
Cam’s Connected Community – Memory Café
A Safe, Engaging Environment for Activities and Caring
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Caregiver Note: The information shared here is for general education and support and isn't a substitute for individualized medical advice. Contact your loved one's healthcare professional when you have concerns about changes in behavior, health, medication, or safety.
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